"Juvenile Archetype" by Ayabulela

"Growing Pains" are trying to navigate the world (all its complexities and simplicities) and realising everyone is making it up as they go along, just like you. It's fear and anger inducing, but just like physical growing pains, when it's all said and done the growing pains are worth it. 

In Juvenile Archetype, Ayabulela faces growing pains head on, and realises she has no idea who she is when people aren't telling her who to be.