Embodied Intimacy: Erotic Blueprints™: A BlissDance Introduction

Embodied Intimacy: Exploring Erotic and Emotional Desires Through Dance

Unlock New Levels of Connection Using The Erotic Blueprints™

Join in a transformational weekend with two events, an introductory Friday night BlissDance, followed by a one-day workshop, that guide you through a powerful exploration of connection, consent, and intimacy—all through the language of dance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious about deepening your understanding of self and others, this workshop offers you the tools to unlock your erotic potential in a supportive, safe environment.

With two visiting international facilitators, you engage in guided movement, playful exploration, and deep reflection, using Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, The Erotic Blueprints™, and BlissDance as frameworks for self-discovery and connection.

This is an opportunity to experiment and play outside of what’s familiar, exploring intimacy with yourself and others in a space that is held with care, presence, and consent.

Workshop Logistics:

Erotic Blueprints™: a BlissDance introduction

Date & Time: Friday 25 April | 6pm* - 9pm

* arrival from 6.00pm for a prompt 6.30pm start

Cost:

R350

Location:

Lotus Hall, 15a Peterhof Road

Houtbay, South Africa

(Off-street parking available)

Bring:

• Comfortable clothing you can move in
• A water bottle
• An open mind and willingness to explore!

Join us on Saturday 26 April too...

Wheel of Consent, Erotic Blueprints™ & BlissDance Workshop

Date & Time: Saturday 26 April | 10am - 7pm

Cost: R1000

PURCHASE: https://qkt.io/embodiedintimacysaturday

What You Gain

• A deeper understanding of your own erotic blueprint – Discover how you naturally express and engage with your desires, and how to communicate those needs clearly and confidently.
• Enhanced consent practices – Learn the fundamentals of Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, empowering you to make and receive bids for connection in a way that feels good for everyone involved.
• Practical skills for navigating intimacy – Use conscious dance practices to explore vulnerability, connection, and trust, both with yourself and others.
• A new framework for healthy, constructive relationships – Gain tools to engage in relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—in a way that fosters mutual respect and pleasure.
• Increased self-awareness and confidence – Feel more connected to your body and desires, allowing you to express yourself authentically and lovingly in any setting.

Why These Frameworks?

The Erotic Blueprints™

Created by sex and relationship coach Jaiya, the Erotic Blueprints™ provide a language for understanding your personal erotic expression. Just as people have different love languages, we all have unique ways of experiencing and expressing desire. The five Erotic Blueprints™—Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter—help you:

• Discover your primary erotic language and what turns you on.
• Learn how to communicate your needs in a way that others can understand.
• Engage constructively with partners whose blueprints may be different from yours.
• Break free from habitual patterns and open up new ways of experiencing pleasure.

This workshop offers a playful and embodied exploration of your Erotic Blueprint™, using movement and dance as a way to express and integrate your discoveries.

BlissDance: A Journey of Movement and Connection

BlissDance is a conscious dance practice that allows you to explore movement, emotion, and intimacy in a deeply embodied way. Using breath, sound, and intuitive movement, you are guided into a sensory-rich experience of connection—both with yourself and with others.

BlissDance is not about performance or perfection—it is an invitation to drop into your body, let go of inhibitions, and allow yourself to move from an authentic place. Through this practice, you:

• Play with movement as a form of communication.
• Explore connection and vulnerability in a safe, held space.
• Engage in guided exercises that encourage authentic expression.
• Develop greater trust in yourself and your desires.

BlissDance serves as our primary medium of exploration, offering a somatic, embodied experience of the Wheel of Consent and the Erotic Blueprints™ in action.

Who Is This For?

• Those who desire more meaningful and intimate connections.
• People curious about the intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and self-expression.
• Anyone wanting to explore their body and desires in a loving, consensual way.
• Individuals looking for new tools to enhance relationships and better align with their partner’s needs.
• Those seeking deeper insights into their own desires and how to communicate them effectively.

Meet Your Facilitators

Claire Rumore

Claire Rumore is an intimacy coach, erotic educator, and lifelong dancer who guides individuals and couples in exploring their multidimensional sexual, spiritual, and relational selves. She specialises in the Erotic Blueprints, Urban Tantra, and somatic sex coaching, and is a co-creator of Subtle Sexuality.

• clairerumore.com
• subtle-sexuality.com
• [email protected]

Rayven Spirit

Rayven, known for his calm, grounded presence, opens spaces for authentic self-expression, deep connection, and purpose. Drawing from his own journey, Rayven encourages participants to slow down, be present, and move with inspiration and creativity—dancing with life’s possibilities, grounded in self-compassion, humility, and awe.

• danceswithchaos.com
• [email protected]

Both facilitators bring a wealth of experience in somatic practices, sexuality, consent, and conscious dance, creating an environment that is safe, supportive, and deeply transformative.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need dance experience to attend?

Not at all! This workshop is about exploration, play, and embodiment, not choreography or technique. Whether you’re new to movement or already comfortable dancing, you’ll be guided through exercises designed for all experience levels.

Will there be physical contact with others?

All exercises are built on consent and choice. You are encouraged to engage at your own comfort level. There will be structured invitations for partnered or group exploration, but you always have the option to observe, modify, or opt out.

Is this workshop sexual?

No. This workshop explores erotic energy, desire, and connection, but there is no explicit sexual activity. The focus is on understanding your erotic blueprint, practicing consent, and engaging in embodied play through movement.

Can I attend with my partner?

Absolutely! Partners often find this experience deepens their connection and understanding of each other. You’ll have the chance to explore together while also engaging in exercises with other participants, creating a rich and diverse learning experience.

What should I bring?

• Comfortable clothing you can move in
• A water bottle
• An open mind and willingness to explore!