Black Queer Dom in Conversation: Protocols & Power Exchange - A Space for People of Colour

This space is for our community members of colour. Allies to sit this one out <3

 

Couples, throuples and more-uples are welcome! As are singles. Come as you are.

 

This is a pay-what-you-can event! You can come for free, or buy a ticket! (thank you BQD for making this possible!)

Join us for a night of learning, fun, discovery and play with @blackqueerdom! BQD will be facilitating a space for bodywork, and demonstrating some of their favourite protocols for power exchange. You will be invited to absorb the information presented in these demonstrations, and practice some of their techniques within your own dynamic. They will also be demonstrating some fire play! All we can say is... it's going to be LIT!

Black Queer Dom is a sensual Dominant and sex educator. They’ve been kinking publicly since 2020. Married to their wife of 20 years, non monogamous, and host a learning community of over 100 Black Queer & Trans Dominants. Plus a kink Society (for all identities) that provides the largest body of kink workshops, trainings & practice/play spaces for Black LGBTQIA2S+ folks in the country. Learn more about them via their website: http://blackqueerdom.com/

Embodiment Rope Space is a welcoming and safe(r) space for members of the LGBTQIA+ community and allies. We practice rope and shibari communally and host occasional workshops for upskilling the community. Rope/Shibari is never safe, there are only ways to do it more safely.

We have limited treated rope from Sudo Jute for sale and safety shears. Non-alcoholic drinks (Soft drinks, water, tea, coffee) will also be for sale. 

Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force. 

You can follow us on Instagram here: 
@embodiment_ct 
@desirelinesbondage (she/they)
@vroeteldier.kinbaku (she/they)
@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)
@rope.fu (he/him)
@hotsqueak (they/them)
@wavybeanbaby (she/her)
@gr_en.trapa (they/them)
@charliefrench_za (she/her)
@creaturale (they/them)

1. Don’t be late.
2. Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you. 
3. Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility. 
4. Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given. 
5. No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free. 
6. Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.
7. Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent. 
8. Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo. 
9. Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity. 
10. Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing. 
11. Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.
12. Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.
13. This is a sober space. Please do not use any recreational drugs or alcohol before coming or while on site. 
14. Acknowledge and accept that you are participating in high-risk behavior at your own risk.
15. No suspension is allowed unless you have been given permission, please message us beforehand via Instagram DM to tell us about the suspension you would like to do.