Rope Jam | râlent: an exploration of lingering touch
Thu Feb 22, 19:00 - Thu Feb 22, 21:00
Embodiment Rope Space, Salt River
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Come explore an often-overlooked side of kink with this jam for partners focusing on non-sexual intimacy and connection.
Dipping a finger, literally, into sensory play, we aim to add a few tools to your and your partners’ intimacy arsenal, allowing for a more meaningful “before” and “after” when it comes to play sessions. We will be practicing deliberate touch as a connective and comforting modality.
The evening will consist of a brief talk about the relationship between the senses, the self, and the other, followed by a clothed practice session in which you will explore a couple of ways in which you can build up a connection one-on-one with your partner. This connection will be based on deliberate, slow, sensual, and mindful touch, transforming your hands and skin from their everyday utility into agents of embodiment.
Jam tickets include: x1 LUSH message bar, x1 LUSH oil melt & x1 LUSH sample body wash per couple
PLEASE PACK IN A TOWEL TO DRY OFF YOUR ARMS AFTER THE CLEANSING RITUAL
Show up with an open and enquiring mind, in a comfy outfit you can roll your sleeves up in, ready to explore with a partner.
Please note that this is not a play session, so please keep that in mind when practicing with a partner. No nudity will be allowed for the comfort of all participants.
Description
Embodiment Rope Space is a welcoming and safe(r) space for members of the LGBTQIA+ community and allies. We practice rope communally and host occasional workshops for upskilling the community. Rope is never safe, there are only ways to do it more safely.
Absolute beginners and experienced rope practitioners are welcome to this jam. Rope Jams are spaces where you can come and practice rope tying in a peer-to-peer setting. Singles, couples, throuples, etc. are all welcome. This jam will be focused on pairs, thus we are only allowing paired folks to join. Join with your partner, friend, or someone you trust. But we will not be permitting singles or observers as the focus of this jam is on the connection between 2 people, regardless of relationship format. Switching is allowed and encouraged. Class rope will be available for use for free on the day if you do not have your own rope.
Events start promptly at 19:00. Please DM us via Instagram if you are running late. Doors open at 18:40 and are closed at 19:10. We will be strict about this because late-coming can be very disruptive to those in the space. Pre-booking is essential (cash on the night is available by arrangement via Instagram DM). Please have your tickets ready to be scanned on arrival.
We have limited treated rope from Sudo Jute for sale and safety shears. Non-alcoholic drinks (coke, water, tea, coffee) will also be for sale.
Come dressed however you like - comfy, sexy, sporty, fetish. As long as your booty is covered, you are welcome here.
About Us
Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force.
You can follow us on Instagram here:
@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)
@rope.fu (he/him)
@hotsqueak (they/them)
@wavybeanbaby (she/her)
@gr_en.trapta (they/them)
@creaturale (they/them)
@charliefrench_za (she/her)
@desirelinesbondage (she/they)
@vroeteldier.kinbaku (she/they)
Rules
- Don’t be late.
- Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you.
- Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility.
- Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given.
- No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free.
- Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.
- Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent.
- Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo.
- Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity.
- Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing.
- Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.
- Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.
- This is a sober space. Please do not use any recreational drugs or alcohol before coming or while on site.
- Acknowledge and accept that you are participating in high-risk behaviour at your own risk.
- No suspension is allowed unless you have been given permission, please message us beforehand via Instagram DM to tell us about the suspension you would like to do
FAQ
What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage?
The art of binding the body of a consenting adult.
Is rope always sexual?
Rope has many benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For some, it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. For some, it is a way to experience a connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.
What should I wear?
This is a friendly learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. We find that it is easier to tie with minimal clothing or clothing that you can move in easily (leggings, shorts, etc.).
Should I bring my own rope?
We encourage all participants to bring their own rope if they have any. For those who do not have rope, we have quality rope from SudoJute on sale at our rope kiosk. Additionally, we have class rope for use during our jams as well. All our class rope is quality 6mm Tokyo Asanawa rope from SudoJute which has already been pre-treated and pre-used. We do not permit any fluids or crotch rope/face rope/mouth rope with our class rope.
Can I come by myself/alone?
For this jam we will NOT be permitting solo participants. We expect all ticket holders to come pre-paired and comfortable enough with one another to explore the exercises in the first half of the evening. This does not however mean that your partner needs to be your romantic partner, platonic partners are more than welcome to participate!
What should I bring?
We will be supplying you with some luxurious goodies from LUSH to set the tone and intention, we ask however that you bring along a towel to dry yourself & to dress comfortably to enjoy the space. We have drinks on sale, but feel free to bring along your drinks (we do not allow alcohol) and snacks to indulge in as needed.